“Like a city whose walls are broken down is a man who lacks self-control.” Proverbs 25:28
In Biblical times, the wall of a city was of utmost importance. It was a sign to the surrounding nations of a peoples’ strength, wealth, and defense. When the wall was destroyed, so was the nation. We see this in the history of the nation of Judah. When Babylon took the nation into captivity, they not only destroyed the city of Jerusalem and the Temple of God, but they also destroyed the wall around the city. Why? It was a strong statement of Babylonian power and conquest to the Jews and other nations surrounding Jerusalem.
- Interestingly, the Proverbs equates the man who lacks self-control to a city with a broken down wall. Why? I would suggest several reasons:
- A city without a wall is a laughing stock to its neighbors. It not only spoke volumes about the weakness of the people but also the apparent weakness of their God. Is God’s name blasphemed among non believers because of us?
- A city without a wall is vulnerable to attack by the enemy. Certainly, there could be no possible sense of security in a city without defense. In the same way, when we lack self control, we open ourselves up to the attack of our enemy, the Devil. Without self control, we are weak and helpless in the face of temptation.
- A city without a wall is devalued. Would anyone want to invest money in a city whose wall was broken down? In the same way, the man of noble character will rarely gravitate to the fool. The person without self control is attractive to the fools of the world who live life with no restraint. If we want to be a stand out, we must practice self control. Then, the godly man/woman will be drawn to invest time into our lives.
- A city without a wall is disrespected. Would the mayor of a city whose wall was broken down be taken seriously if he were to give a talk on “How to build an unbreakable wall”? I would say not. With no control over our anger, passions, and other emotions, we are shown no respect because we have earned no respect.
What form does a lack of self control take? You know as well as I do, right? Sexual immorality including masterbation and pornography, uncontrolled speech, impulse shopping, overeating, fits of rage/anger, pride, alcohol/drug abuse, and the list goes on. We must live self controlled lives through the practice of…drum roll… self control. While it is a fruit of the Spirit, it must be practiced in order to be perfected. Easy…uh,no. But nothing worthwhile is.








